This week, the week of The Ascension, I turn my attention down from the fatherly sky to the motherly earthly foundation of what we are.
A focus on Mary?
About four and three quarters of a year ago in Rembang, Java, the home of the Kartini Museum, I formulated this set of socio-philosophical principles about gender:
1. Men, women and children need to live with love.
This love is an indispensable foundation of human society.
2. Three fundamental mothering capacities differentiate women from men:
A The ability to carry and nurture life in the womb.
B The capacity to give birth to that life.
C The ability to give the best possible nutrition to new human beings by breast feeding.
3 These three qualitative differences give mothers and potential mothers some different human rights and responsibilities to the rights and responsibilities of other people.
4 The modern western demonisation of men and disempowerment of mothers are two sides of the same coin.
5 The cradle of human culture is maternal love.
6 True loving manliness empowers and protects mums.
7 When family life ceases to be a nation’s foundation, the nation’s death is inevitable.
On a very important day in a 175 year old church last year, I came up with the idea “Arma Virumque Me Cano” rewriting a line of war poetry by the Roman poet Vergil to make it more Catullan, less warlike.
In that spirit, I hope the above articulation of gender principles can evolve to become incantations of value to mums.
We need them.
And they need us.
Geoff Fox, 14th may, Australia’s Mother’s Day, 2023
(God Bless Andrea Mantegna of Mantua for creating the above image of Mother Mary to which I have added a few words.)